| Imagine That: Are dolls our friends, our possessions, or something entirely else? |
| Written by Stephanie Finnegan |
| Tuesday, 24 April 2012 17:17 |
Did you have an imaginary friend? I suspect that most of us had that special invisible pal who accompanied us on bike rides, strolls to the park, and kept us occupied during endless family car trips (“Are we there YET? It’s been 30 minutes!”). My daughter has purported to have several incarnations of a make-believe pal, but her roster of fictional friends changes and no one seems to stick around for more than a season or two. However, she’s recently begun to read chapter books on her own—she’s in first grade—and now she has developed a hankering for a new kind of wishful friendship. She’d love for her favorite heroine—Junie B. Jones—to be a real-live girl. She said to me the other day, “Mommy, I wish that Junie and her family could live next door to us, and then I’d be able to know her for real. I know we’d be best friends.”
That’s such a sweet sentiment, and I recalled how I was smitten with different characters from my elementary-school book-reading days: Harriet the Spy, Cathy Leonard, Scout. It would have been great to know these young girls, and have them as next-door neighbors or as fellow uniform-wearing classmates. There’s a company called MerryMakers (http://merrymakersinc.com/index.html) and they have converted Not only is Junie B.—a curious, quirky, pesky, opinionated first grader on hand—so are Ladybug Girl, Olivia, Skippyjon Jones, and so many other personalities that have filled up my daughter’s bookshelves and bedtime rituals. It was amazing to see these illustrations brought to three-dimensional, tangible life. Good job, MerryMakers, for making kids’ secret desires come true.
Most likely, one of the reasons why there is such a boon in dolls being made in the likeness of celebrities, film characters, novel heroines and heroes, is that we all still have that first-grade desire to know these people, to share a conversation with them or, in some cases, to be them. The dolls that we buy might ultimately reflect who or what we wish we could have become or what we wish our life would have been in alternate circumstances. Looking at it that way, our dolls are like totems from a time-traveling expedition. As we study what we’ve bought in the past, are currently As of this week—the third one in April 2012—my daughter is besotted with Junie B. Jones. I hear about the characters’ family (including first names of her parents and grandparents), her foibles at school, her list of friends, and her comical mispronunciations and everyday misunderstandings. My daughter identifies greatly, and so a literary crush has been born.
I wonder which protagonists you, the readers, have found yourself taken with. Are there any characters out there—on film, in books, flickering on the TV at night—who have grabbed you by the collar and gotten under your skin? Though I’m definitely old enough to know that actors and actresses are not who they pretend to be, I must admit that I do have a hard time differentiating Jon Hamm from Don Draper—could anyone ever be better cast? I think this is probably the last vestige of the imaginary friend syndrome. Though I have to ask myself, why, in the world, am I choosing to be friends with someone who cheats on his wife, smokes two packs a day, drinks like a fish, and isn’t who he claims to be? Seems like there is a heck of a lot to imagine about this particular imaginary friend. When “Mad Men” finishes out this season, I imagine I’ll uncover and wonder about a lot more.
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Hi,
I have soooo many dolls of all kind, china, baby, Barbie, portrait and on and on. Most of them are vintage, some antique. A lot of my dolls were "donated for rescue" to me by my friends, after their kids were "through" with them. I simply enjoy them, I luv to handle them, look at them, show them to other people. The rescue process is a creative process for me. The endresult is enjoyable for everybody that gets to see the dolls. I don't think, I identify with the dolls, even though they are "company" to me for a lot of time, since I am by myself a lot. Having been an over-protected, only child, this is quite normal to me The few friends I have, do tease me about my dolls, but I see people around me spend large amounts of time and sometimes money in the casino and playing games on the computer and in my eyes, that would be mind-numbing for me. To me dolls are art-objects, that reflect the development of human culture through the filtered view of the playroom. I think some of the dolls are exquisit and others are quite humble and many of them are worth being collected and rescued from the trip to the landfill. And at the risk of repeading myself, I simply enjoy having them around. If I could ask for a 12" portrait doll of true "quality", that yet has to be made, "a young Bette Davis as Jezebel" would be it please!!! I would be the first to add her to my collection. Smiles. Viagra online without a prescription |